Hello beautiful people, here I am writing again after going on hiatus for over a year. The length of time away wasn’t planned, it just seemed like life kept getting in the way of completing all my half-written posts. I received a couple of messages asking if I was OK and Read more…
I remember back then thinking how 30 seemed soooo old and how far away that age seemed to me. Even when I clocked 30 and then got older than 30, my brain refused to accept it. Luckily, I look way younger. I remember going with my friend’s kids to their Read more…
When we talk about destiny, there are two major arguments. There are those who say you make your own destiny and those that say that your destiny comes through regardless of how you have lived, regardless of the sort of foundation you have laid in your life. I have taken Read more…
I remember having lots of “for” or “against” abortion conversations and discussions with friends and acquaintances. The most common phrases are “Oh c’mon, at early stages, it’s not even human, it’s only a fetus!” “You Catholics want to have many children for the pope to lead!” and such. Among the Read more…
There’s a new doll in town. She’s a queen, she’s black and she wears traditional Nigerian costumes. The dolls’ attires are modelled after three of the Nigeria’s biggest tribes (Ibo, Yoruba and Hausa) and aims to promote strong feminine ideals, the African culture and pride in oneself, irrespective of the Read more…
Define your values. Your values are the things that you believe are important in the way you live and work. They determine your priorities and goals in every area of your life. Make SMART goals and commit to them. SMART is an acronym for the following: Specific, Measurable, Actionable, Read more…
Rahman is a dashing young man! To be honest, I don’t even remember how we met. Our parents were friends and I guess we became friends by default. We attended the same schools – primary and secondary. In secondary school, he was one of the cool kids. Once, some friends Read more…
If you know me, then you’ll know that I like to talk about my chocolate brothers….and all the other flavours! The chocolate brother is strong! The chocolate brother believes in being strong. It is a character that he wears like a piece of clothing that he never takes off. This Read more…
Always think for yourself. However, good advice comes in handy; Listen to it. Measure yourself only against your previous self. A dedicated amount of your paycheck should go directly to your savings account every month. The women keep theirs. Know when you’ve made a mistake and know when to say Read more…
After looking for an English speaking church for what seemed like eternity before moving to Poland, a nice Lutheran lady told me about this one. I have been attending this church for months now and it feels like a little family and I feel right at home with God.